I also think it is important to post the below in case Crazy Lady really does make some dramatic statement aka burning their home.
Names have not been changed. You email me something, it has a chance of winding up on the blog.
You know you love me,
XOXO,
Gossip Girl
please read (start at the bottom email and move your way up), then post on your blog. in the event that this girl ends up burning my house down I would like concrete, public evidence that she is batshitcrazy.
---------- Forwarded message ----------
From: Maria
Date: Mar 3, 2008 9:38 AM
Subject: Fwd: Party Last Night
To: Mark
i just spoke to lani and megan...they may call u later cuz they cant get to me...read this email leila sent last night...then apparently she kept talking really loudly about meg with her door open...then started yelling cunt cunt cunt...im scared babe...im writing back to her separately to see if maybe i can remedy this...meg and lani are SOOOOO terrified--they left last night to lani's parents house at 1am cuz leila would stop...we're all going to die babe.
---------- Forwarded message ----------
From: Leila
Date: Mar 3, 2008 12:34 AM
Subject: Re: Party Last Night
To: Megan Palame
Cc: Maria, Marissa, Lani, cyounghyman
if you were going to cry over my email i can ONLY IMAGINE how you would
have dealt with this guy embarrassing you in front of THE ENTIRE PARTY..
hahahahah cunt cunt cunt.. now how about i left your skirt up infront
of everyone?? yeah saying the word cunt and grabbing someones ass is
pretty equal.. actually you are right the word cunt is worse... so
maybe to NOT OFFEND YOU i should use the word bitch, douche, or
asshole, ... do you have a preference? cause you know the word cunt is
the same as DISRESPECTING someone in their own house..
hahaha me and sean are the only ones to react that way? hey maybe i
should have bowed down and kissed this guys ass? or maybe i should have
just giggled and acted cute? is that how you and lani handled it when
he touched you? wellll i guess maybe i am the weird one for having
respect for myself. no offense. i guess it was wrong to even want to
ask this guy to leave? you are right megan we are really weird people.
what should he have done, miss know it all? you are completely right we
should have just ignored it.
if you were upstairs how can you claim to know what chloe did and did
not do. i will call her a cunt whenever i see fit, so mind your own
business. i call it how i see it.. confidence doesnt mean laugh in your
roommates face when YOUR friend assaults her.. that email wasnt about
hating chloe if i wanted to write an email about that i could have done
it months ago.. that email was about ME.. the guy left cause he was
planning to leave why do you think he did it..
how do you know how they were? you didnt hear what they said to us. god
i know you have to get your point across all the time, hey but maybe
this isnt about you knowing everything for once, its about being a half
decent person.
we scare you? oh jesus, maybe you should seek counseling.. hahah ... we
arent friends? that hurts, considering you talked so much smack about
chloe and now you guys are best buddies hahaha .. you dont care about
my life? fine, dont listen to me and seans aggressive ways and go run
for your life haha
byeeeeee
if you want to say anything else you know where i live... but maybe you
shouldnt considering how violent we are. (note the sarcasm)
Quoting Megan:
> Hey leila and roommates, I am gonna respond to this email kind of line by
> line so its easier for you to follow what I am about to write. and although
> what i am writing might be better with talking, i don't think i would be
> able to get it all out without crying or shaking. and i believe this is a
> roommate matter and it is impossible to get everyone together.
>
> Last night was ridiculous. What happened with Chloe's friend lifting up
>> my skirt, grabbing my ass and untying my shirt in the middle of the
>> house in front of everyone was completely disrespectful, uncalled for,
>> and a complete shock to me.
>
>
> YES THIS WAS DISRESPECTFUL. THE GUY ACTUALLY WAS DOING THAT TO ME EARLIER,
> STROKING MY LEGS AND ARMS AND GRABBING ME, AND LANI TOLD ME HE KEPT BRUSHING
> UP AGAINST HER CHEST ON PURPOSE. SO IT WAS NOT A SHOCK TO ME THAT HE DID
> THAT TO YOU. I TOLD HIM TO STOP, AND HE STOPPED.
>
> What was an even bigger shock to me was the
>> reaction of my roommates who I thought would have stood behind me a
>> little bit more. Chloe, you came up to me laughing asking what was
>> wrong, already aware of what had happened.
>
>
> I AM SURE CHLOE DID NOT MEAN TO LAUGH IF SHE DID, HONESTLY WHEN ANYTHING
> WEIRD AND AWKWARD HAPPENS WHEN I AM DRUNK I LAUGH BECAUSE I AM NERVOUS IF
> ANYTHING. I WOULD NOT TAKE OFFENSE TO THAT. VERBAL FIGHTS ARE CRAZY.
>
>> Lani, you kept telling me to
>> calm down and to relax. Relax? Would you have been able to be calm and
>> relaxed if that would have happened to you? Meg, you just stood there.
>
>
> ACTUALLY, YOU ARE MISTAKEN, I DID NOT JUST STAND THERE, BECAUSE DURING THIS
> QUARREL I WAS IN MY ROOM WITH MY FRIEND THAT JUST CAME IN THE DOOR. WHEN I
> CAME DOWN, EVERYONE WAS STANDING FAR FROM THE BAR AND LANI TOLD ME WHAT HAD
> HAPPENED, THAT THINGS GOT OUT OF HAND BUT THE GUY HAD ALREADY LEFT WHICH WAS
> GOOD. I HAD NO REASON TO SAY ANYTHING TO YOU GUYS, FIRST BECAUSE I DIDN'T
> WITNESS THE CONFRONTATION AND YOU AND SEAN WERE PRETTY HEATED UP, BUT IT IS
> SAD YOU FELT I JUST STOOD THERE.
>
>>
>> Lani and Meg, I understand that you might have been shocked and not
>> known what to do, but anyone of my friends from home would have been
>> there to at least ask me what happened and have the guy leave and not
>> look at me like I was insane for getting upset.
>
>
> ONCE AGAIN, I AM GLAD THE GUY DID LEAVE, FROM MY UNDERSTANDING EVERYONE
> (INCLUDING CHLOE) WANTED HIM TO LEAVE BECAUSE OF HOW YOU FELT, AND HE LEFT
> PRETTY QUICKLY FROM WHAT I WAS TOLD! SO I DON'T KNOW WHY THERE WERE PROBLEMS
> BEYOND THAT.
>
>
>> Chloe, I am fairly sure
>> you had somewhat of a part in it judging by how hilarious you thought
>> it was.
>
>
> I AM REALLY CONFUSED AS TO WHY YOU THINK CHLOE HAD A PART IN THIS. WHY WOULD
> SHE TELL SOMEONE TO GRAB YOUR ASS. HE WAS GRABBING EVERYONE. HONESTLY AS
> MUCH AS CHLOE IS A CONFIDENT PERSON, I BELIEVE THERE IS A BIT OF FEAR WITH
> HER AND YOU BECAUSE YOU CLEARLY HATE HER FOR ANYTHING SHE SAYS OR DOES. WE
> ALL HAVE PARTS THAT ARE ANNOYING TO EVERYONE BUT ITS NO REASON TO FIND FAULT
> IN EVERYTHING.
>
>
>> If the situation was reversed and it was my friend that did
>> that to you, I would have made them leave right away. Instead, the only
>> person who was there to stand up for me was Sean. And you really should
>> all thank Sean for not fighting that guy and making the party even
>> worse than what it was, even as Chloe's friends were telling him that
>> her friends are the kind of guys "who smash bottles on people's heads
>> when they're not looking"? are these really the kind of people we want
>> in our house?
>>
>
> FROM THE SOUND OF IT I THINK SEAN IS ALLOWED TO STICK UP FOR YOU, BUT I
> THINK IT CAN BE DONE WITHOUT SO MUCH ANGER, VOLUME, AND VULGARITY.
>
>>
>> I am sure that if this happened to any of you, and if you had a
>> boyfriend that was there, he would have reacted in the same way if not
>> worse.
>>
>
> I HONESTLY HAVE NEVER MET ANYONE EXCEPT FOR THE TWO OF YOU WHO WOULD REACT
> IN THAT WAY. YOU SEEM TO THINK THIS IS NORMAL. I FIND IT MORE FRIGHTENING
> THAN SOMEONE GRABBING MY ASS.
>
> This was a blatant attempt to start a fight it is not
>> acceptable.
>
>
> WHY WOULD ANYONE WANT TO START A FIGHT. THEY WERE JUST THERE TO HAVE FUN.
> THEY ARE ALL ACTUALLY REALLY FUNNY GUYS, AND THIS GUY JUST HAPPENED TO MAKE
> SOME DUMB CHOICES, I DON'T KNOW HOW HE REACTED TO YOU WHEN YOU ASKED HIM TO
> LEAVE.
>
> I do not want people like this in my house as I do not feel
>> safe and when these people are threatening my boyfriend, I left to
>> prevent any further problems because Chloe's friends would not stop
>> harassing me or Sean.
>
>
> I THINK THEIR FRIENDS WERE OK WITH HIM LEAVING, THEY UNDERSTOOD. THEY DIDN'T
> WANT TO START TROUBLE.
>
>
>> Furthermore when these guys are looking to start
>> trouble and show up in massive groups as Chloe's friends were
>> yesterday, I can only imagine what could happen to the house or any of
>> us for that matter. It was clear that there is an obvious lack of
>> respect for women as nobody in the house seemed to think what happened
>> was wrong, with the exception of Bui and Mark.
>
>
> A LACK OF RESPECT FOR WOMEN??????? ARE YOU KIDDING ME LEILA, DO YOU THINK WE
> HAVE A LACK OF RESPECT FOR WOMEN, THAT GUY DID!!! AND WHAT REALLY OFFENDS ME
> IS, FROM WHAT I HEAR, IS THAT YOU CALLED CHLOE A CUNT WHEN YOU WERE YELLING
> AT HER LAST NIGHT. I OFTEN HEAR YOU USE THAT WORD, AS WELL AS SEAN, AND I
> FIND THAT DISRESPECTFUL AND NAUSEATING.
>
>
>> If this were to happen
>> again, and I had guys show up in massive groups, drunk, aggressive and
>> looking to start fights it would not be acceptable or a good scene. I
>> don't want insincere apologies or excuses because what's done is done,
>> and I see where we stand as friends and roommates.
>
>
> I HAVE NO APOLOGIES FOR THE WAY THINGS HAPPENED, NOT ONLY BECAUSE I HAD NO
> RIGHT TO BE INVOLVED AT THE TIME, BUT BECAUSE I DON'T EVEN UNDERSTAND WHERE
> WE STAND AS ROOMMATES TO BEGIN WITH. WE DON'T HANG OUT, AND I DON'T THINK
> YOU SINCERELY CARE ABOUT WHATS GOING ON IN MY LIFE, JUST AS I AT THIS POINT
> DON'T REALLY CARE ABOUT WHATS GOING ON WITH YOUR LIFE.
>
> This is an attempt
>> to show you how angry I am over this situation and I will not be
>> dealing with this anymore and will take whatever steps I need to ensure
>> that this or anything like it never happens again.
>
>
> I AM CONFUSED AS TO WHAT STEPS YOU NEED TO TAKE. I FIND YOUR BEHAVIOR, AS
> WELL AS SEANS, MORE AGRESSIVE AND THREATENING ON A DAY TO DAY BASIS THAN
> WHAT HAPPENED LAST NIGHT. BUT I BELIEVE I TOLD THAT TO YOU A WHILE BACK WHEN
> YOU CONFRONTED ME ABOUT A NOTE ABOUT CLEANING DISHES. I TOLD YOU THAT THE
> WAY YOU TALK (WITH SEAN, AND THE WAY HE TALKS TO YOU) IS SCARY. I HOPE THAT
> IT DOES NOT HAVE TO BE DIFFICULT TO LIVE WITH YOU, AND FOR YOU WITH ME,
> UNTIL YOU MOVE OUT AND WE GO OUR SEPARATE WAYS, THESE LIVING SITUATIONS ARE
> NEVER PERFECT AND I AM FINE WITH BEING CORDIAL TO YOU, WHICH I ALWAYS HAVE
> BEEN. BUT WE ARE NOT FRIENDS.
>
> -MEGAN
>
> On Sun, Mar 2, 2008 at 6:11 PM, Leila wrote:
>
>> Last night was ridiculous. What happened with Chloe's friend lifting up
>> my skirt, grabbing my ass and untying my shirt in the middle of the
>> house in front of everyone was completely disrespectful, uncalled for,
>> and a complete shock to me. What was an even bigger shock to me was the
>> reaction of my roommates who I thought would have stood behind me a
>> little bit more. Chloe, you came up to me laughing asking what was
>> wrong, already aware of what had happened. Lani, you kept telling me to
>> calm down and to relax. Relax? Would you have been able to be calm and
>> relaxed if that would have happened to you? Meg, you just stood there.
>> Lani and Meg, I understand that you might have been shocked and not
>> known what to do, but anyone of my friends from home would have been
>> there to at least ask me what happened and have the guy leave and not
>> look at me like I was insane for getting upset. Chloe, I am fairly sure
>> you had somewhat of a part in it judging by how hilarious you thought
>> it was. If the situation was reversed and it was my friend that did
>> that to you, I would have made them leave right away. Instead, the only
>> person who was there to stand up for me was Sean. And you really should
>> all thank Sean for not fighting that guy and making the party even
>> worse than what it was, even as Chloe's friends were telling him that
>> her friends are the kind of guys "who smash bottles on people's heads
>> when they're not looking"? are these really the kind of people we want
>> in our house?
>>
>> I am sure that if this happened to any of you, and if you had a
>> boyfriend that was there, he would have reacted in the same way if not
>> worse. This was a blatant attempt to start a fight it is not
>> acceptable. I do not want people like this in my house as I do not feel
>> safe and when these people are threatening my boyfriend, I left to
>> prevent any further problems because Chloe's friends would not stop
>> harassing me or Sean. Furthermore when these guys are looking to start
>> trouble and show up in massive groups as Chloe's friends were
>> yesterday, I can only imagine what could happen to the house or any of
>> us for that matter. It was clear that there is an obvious lack of
>> respect for women as nobody in the house seemed to think what happened
>> was wrong, with the exception of Bui and Mark. If this were to happen
>> again, and I had guys show up in massive groups, drunk, aggressive and
>> looking to start fights it would not be acceptable or a good scene. I
>> don't want insincere apologies or excuses because what's done is done,
>> and I see where we stand as friends and roommates. This is an attempt
>> to show you how angry I am over this situation and I will not be
>> dealing with this anymore and will take whatever steps I need to ensure
>> that this or anything like it never happens again.
>>
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